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About · Stefani Seek

One of the world's top coaches on Alignment

Executive and sales coach, certified love and life coach, and best-selling author.

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About me

I’m Stefani Seek. After a 25-year career as an award-winning sales leader for global firms like Salesforce, Gartner and TEKsystems, I left corporate in 2023 to become a full-time coach. I know exactly what it feels like to be called to a greater purpose, and it is why you’ve come this far to learn more about me.

I blend my proven 5V Alignment Method with my deep intuition and vast experience to ask you all of the right questions and surface the deep-rooted beliefs that are causing you to feel like you are wanting more for your life and career.

It’s okay if you don’t know exactly how to articulate what you truly want. Many of my clients begin coaching thinking it’s for one reason…such as a promotion or a new job…and end up launching their own businesses because the alignment work brings out an entirely new vision and energy that lights them up.

Don’t worry about the “how.” You truly do have to trust that voice inside telling you that you need to explore something different for your life and ignore the fear that is coming from your mind. Our brains are designed to keep us safe, and safety isn’t always helpful when it limits our growth.

My clients experience life-changing results that re-invigorate dreams long forgotten or put on hold. Let’s talk and figure out how you can ALIGN for ABUNDANCE. It is never too late to change your mind!

25Years in the room
Trusted by Fortune 500 leaders
What I do now

I coach two kinds of people who are really the same person at different moments: leaders who feel stuck at the top, and women rebuilding love after divorce, loss, or a long wait.

I bring the strategic together with the intuitive, so the work moves both the plan and the person. The leaders I coach come from Mastercard, Salesforce, AWS, Gartner, and KForce. The women I coach had often given up on love, and found it anyway.

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  • Best-selling international author of The Love Compass and Your Love Compass, with my books shown at celebrity gifting events for the 2025 Oscars and Emmys.

  • Featured as “The Love Coach” on NBC affiliates, and across ABC, Fox News, CBS, AP, Yahoo! Finance, and KSDK.

  • Certified private love and life coach, and founder of Seek Love, LLC.

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When I am not coaching or writing, I am mum to three daughters. That is a large part of why helping women find their authentic voice matters so much to me.

Stefani has taught me to live in a place to welcome all kinds of love. Once I was open to it, there it was. I was stuck in a negative place focused on the things I didn't want in a man. Stefani helped me switch my focus to waiting for all the things I DO want. Stefani has a true gift. Helping me identify my 5V's led me straight to the love of my life.

Kate N., St. Louis, MO
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In the end, working with Stefani has not only set me up for success in my future career and mental health, helped me get into a role with a 55% increase in pay, but has also equipped me with the tools to stay level-headed, be optimistic, and value my worth at whatever job/company I end up at.
Ann, Senior Director of Sales, Healthcare Technology
In working with Stefani, I went from feeling stuck in a role I'd outgrown and with little executive support, to leading in an international role, having a positive impact on thousands of people in our organization. The confidence and clarity I gained have impacted every area of my life, I am connected to my authentic voice in every work meeting, and I'm even sleeping better at night, which is a huge win for my home life and well-being.
Matt, Vice President, Financial Services
Stefani helped me see possibilities I couldn't see for myself. My work, my relationships, and my mindset have all completely transformed. I didn't realize how much some of my old stories and beliefs were holding me back from what I really deserved in both work and life until I started working with Stefani.
Russ, Global Account Manager, SaaS
After my sessions with Stefani, I can confidently reflect back and share that she has been a catalyst in my career growth and mindset to not only seek what I deserve, but what makes me happy and fulfilled.
Jennifer, Senior Director, Non-Profit
I admit I was very skeptical initially, as I had never worked with a career coach and had invested in myself like this before. I am so glad that I ended up taking the leap to work with Stefani because I felt very stuck and lost with career decisions on what my next step would be, and what would feel right.
Lam, Senior Account Manager, Advisory Services
Her first few sessions were very impactful for me as I was still fairly young in my career, and I felt like Stefani took the time to hear my concerns, struggles, and was always supportive yet firm on what was healthy and right in regards to career growth.
Kristin, Account Manager, Staffing & Managed Services
Investing in myself by working with Stefani has been priceless. I moved from individual contributor to executive vice president in eight months, with a 42 percent increase in compensation.
Laurel, Executive Vice President, National non-profit
Working with Stefani as a coach is one of the best things I have done for myself. She has a natural talent for honing in on key areas that need to be addressed in order to break through blockers and uncover aha moments. Her guidance and coaching advice is tailored to you and your unique needs. She is genuine, caring and supportive with an objective point of view which provides a “safe space” to be vulnerable.
Michelle M., St. Louis, MO
After divorce and as a single mom, I never thought the right man would be out there for me. Stefani helped me to see love in a new way by first starting with how I could love myself better. Then, she helped me expand my belief in what was possible for me. Her advice and coaching worked for me, and I am now with the love of my life.
Kate P., St. Louis, MO
Even though I was excited to work with Stefani as my love coach, I still doubted I could find healthy love in my 50s. I had a painful divorce in my 20s, and I was a single Mom for decades. Through Stefani's heartfelt and honest coaching, I realized that I had been carrying some deep beliefs that I wasn't deserving of real love and I had no room in my life for a partner. It's amazing to say, but I went from being a doubter to meeting the new love of my life within a year of working with Stefani, and now...we are married. I am so happy and loving my new life with my husband. Stefani's system works, and I recommend her coaching services to any woman searching for another chance at love.
Marie, Virginia
After working with Stefani's program for a few weeks, I realized that I wasn't attracting in new love because I was still emotionally tied to my ex-boyfriend. Stefani helped me free myself from those emotional bonds, and I was able to forgive my ex and myself. I felt a huge weight lift off of my back and now I am eagerly working my way through the rest of her program, optimistic that new, healthy love is on its way to me.
Tina, Missouri
After a really bad divorce in my early 40s, I didn't think it was possible to find love again. But I kept watching Stefani's Instagram reels, and her heart-centered advice and kindness really resonated with me. I finally got the courage to work with her a year after I started following her, and oh my gosh...I'm so glad I did. In our first few months of coaching, I used her program to start speaking to myself differently. I didn't realize how much I was talking negatively about dating and what was possible for me. Within three months, a miracle happened and a man I had met over 10 years ago came back into my life...he was divorced as well, and ready to find love again. After a few weeks of dating, we knew our connection was special. Stefani coached me through the process of getting to know him. And now...we are happily engaged. I'm so glad I finally started her program when I did. The timing was perfect and her guidance really works.
Kathryn, Illinois
It is like having someone who really knows and cares about me, and can still be objective.
Client · Ft. Myers, FL
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