I made the mistake of feeling one primary feeling after my first divorce…lonely. I let that feeling drive my new dating habits, which included latching on to the first quality guy who erased that feeling of loneliness. But boy, did I miss getting in tune with many other feelings I wish I had realized were going on inside of my brain and heart. And ironically, lonely was exactly how I felt as our marriage was ending. I rooted the relationship in the primary feeling of “lonely”, and that was exactly what I got in the end.
